Anyhow...
It was late June 2002.
And I was, as usual, minding my
own business.
I was
maneuvering
through
cyberspace, checking out the various
threads on YouThink.com, on
which I had just created my own profile.
In my first month, not yet fully
aware of my
surroundings, I
posted a question with words to the
effect of...“Can’t
I disagree with
homosexuality without being a
homophobe?”
Oh.
My.
God.
It was my
first encounter with homofascism.
A bit disturbed by the group attack that
ensued, I set out to clarify myself
since the
word “homophobe” was a complete
mischacterization of my point of view,
an accusation
of
cowardice, a rallying word, a silencing
word,
and a social stigma. How clever. All
that...
in one word. And one of the most
powerful scarecrow words of my
generation.
Although counterfeit in its
construction, (“homo” meaning “same,”
and “phobia”
meaning “fear,” the
word literally means,
fear-of-the-same) the word is defined as
a
person who hates or fears
homosexuals. But from my point of view,
the word
“homophobe” is nothing
more than a condensed, adult version of
the, “What are ya?
Scared?” tactic that
children use to manipulate each
other. And then there’s the,
you-hate-
gays-because-you-hate-the-gay-in-yourself argument which is
also an adult version of the,
“I
know you are but what am I?”
childhood taunt.
And another counterfeit word from the
GLBT community is the word
“transgendered”
which is
ridiculously inaccurate since no
human being has ever impregnated a
female
and bore a child. (Will somebody
please tell me that I’m not the only one
noticing this?)
Also, I’ve noticed that any public
figure who doesn’t say the phrase,
“...and there’s
nothing
wrong with that...” whenever speaking
about a member of the GLBT community is
in
danger of being labeled as a “homophobe”
or a person who is “anti-gay.” And then
there’s
the word “intolerance” which,
ironically, the gay community is guilty
of since one of
the
definitions of “intolerance” is a
refusal to accept new ideas and
homosexuality is
older than the Bible.
Wow. What a dilemma. How do I escape
stigma and speak the truth? Can I
separate
from those who equate “tolerate” with
“validate?” Can I expose those I oppose
with the
blows of my prose? Who knows? Here
goes...
It was somewhere around 1982 when I
first heard the “born gay” concept, and
it took me twenty years to figure out
that people can actually deceive
themselves into believing
that they were born “gay,” whilst
common-sense observations about the
human species prove them wrong.
The “born gay” concept is in direct
opposition to the ridiculously obvious
pattern of human reproduction. Human
beings reproduce sexually. This means
that people who say that they were “born
gay” are, in effect, saying that nature
has chosen to remove their ability to
reproduce.
Except for the very, very, very few
that are born sterile, nature doesn’t
do that.
Nature is, very obviously, dedicated
to the reproduction of all
species of life. Why would nature
create a life form with millions of
cells and remove that life form’s
attraction to the opposite sex which is
necessary for the propagation of the
species?
Wouldn’t a
human being that was born without the desire to mate with the opposite
gender be able to reproduce asexually
like some other species? How can a
cockroach be
born pregnant and a human be born gay?
Judging by the complexities of the human
psyche,
isn’t it a hundred times more likely
that people have convinced
themselves that they were
born gay? Isn’t the “born gay” concept
an ideological Titanic?
I once saw
a television news story about identical twin boys where one was gay and the
other was straight. Also, when my wife
was in high school, she knew a set of
identical twin
boys and a set of identical twin girls
where one of the twin boys was straight
and the other
gay, and one of the twin girls was gay
and the other straight. How can one twin
be born
gay and the other straight when they’re
genetically identical?
What about
the media-ignored, ex-gay community? The entertainer Little Richard is a
former homosexual and a man named Steven
Bennett, also a former homosexual, is
the
head pastor of a church that reaches out
to the GLBT community called Steven
Bennett
Ministries. Wasn’t Anne Heche “gay” for
a time and now a married (to a man)
mother?
Then there’s Exodus International, a
ministry that’s full of formerly
“gay” people. Also,
I’ve personally known three men that
were once homosexuals and aren’t
anymore.
Because of my time and travels on planet
Earth, I’ve spoken, at length, to at
least one
hundred and seventy homosexuals and at
least eighty lesbians. And when I sifted
through
all of the bits and pieces of
information that I’ve gathered from
talking to members of the
GLBT community, I came to the conclusion
that the gay lifestyle, although not
an overnight
choice,
still
begins
as a choice, sparked by sudden and/or
gradual
childhood, emotional
trauma.
And then
becomes a daily choice to ignore or
rebel against the natural order of
life.
Typically, a boy “misbonds” with his
father before he’s five and bonds
to a female that
is usually his mother. Then other boys
sense his effeminate behavior and
humiliate and
reject him. And often, a homophile
offers the lonely, misdeveloped boy,
“love” and
acceptance. The gay lifestyle is the
psychological equivalent of a broken
bone that wasn’t
set correctly before knitting itself
back together.
There are
two specific psychological terms relating to the GLBT lifestyle; one is called,
“gender identity disorder,” and the
other is called “gender dysphoria.”
Simply put, it’s a
boy who doesn’t grow out of the “I don’t
like girls” stage of male sexual
development. Or,
vice-versa.
The five
divisions of homosexuality are...
The
Stockholm
(syndrome) homosexual, who was seduced and/or graduated into
homosexuality by another,
almost-always-older, male. The
Effeminate homosexual who
over-relates to women, usually due to an
absent or passive father, and/or an
overbearing
mother. The Spotlight homosexual
who’s rebelling against manlaw and loves
the attention
and drama that homosexuality brings. The
Vagifearian homosexual who’s
terrified of
girls/women, usually due to
older-female-on-younger-male sexual or
physical or emotional
abuse. And finally, the rarest of all,
the Normalphobe homosexual, who
is without
any
outward signs of homosexuality and
doesn’t need or want attention, but
can’t stand being
sexually normal. Every homosexual is in
at least one of these five
divisions.
The eight divisions of lesbianism are...
The two major categories; the
Masculine lesbian, who’s decided
to live her life as a man due to her
appearance, rugged personality, and
masculine/protective nature. (Most of
these come from fatherless homes.) And
the Lipstick lesbian, who usually
doesn’t believe that the human male is
capable of the kindness, compassion, or
empathy of the human female, and/or
wants a penis-free “man.”
The four sub-categories are;
the Disappointed lesbian, who’s
decided to live her life having
romantic, sexual relations with other
females due to her disappointment with
the sexuality and/or the weak and
passive nature of modern men. The
Exotic lesbian (who’s almost
always bisexual) who’s turned on by
the sheer rebelliousness of the lesbian
lifestyle and/or the attention that it
brings. The Feminist lesbian who
sees sex with a man as an act of
submission and oppression and just isn’t
going to have sex with a man. Then,
there’s the type I care about the most,
the Betrayed lesbian, who was
sexually and/or emotionally abused by a
male (usually her father or stepfather
or mother’s boyfriend) usually when she
was very young and wants
no sexual contact with anyone with an
actual, live-flesh, penis.
The eight types of lesbians
are much more emotionally
intertwined than the five types of
homosexuals because the latter four
types of lesbians; disappointed,
exotic, feminist, and
betrayed, choose one of the former
categories of masculine (a.k.a.
“butch”) or lipstick.
Every lesbian that I’ve ever spoken to
fits one of the two major categorizes
and one of the four sub-categorizes.
The best examples I can give are
Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi. A
betrayed-masculine lesbian with
an exotic-lipstick lesbian. And
then there’s Rosie O’Donnell, who is
clearly a feminist-masculine
lesbian.
(I wasn’t even going to attempt
to categorize lesbians until I was
challenged to do so. Understanding the
mind of the human female takes a
heterosexual man at least
twenty-five years of painful
training. At least
twenty-five years!)
Then there’s the omnisexual
who can be a male or a female and will
become whatever
they think the other
person/being wants to have sex with
another (and I’m going to leave
out
the word “human”) being, whether that
being is male or female, adult or child,
human
or
non-human.
Now
there’s the sad reality of same-sex marriage which adversely alters American
culture and absurdly
removed the words “bride” and “groom”
(for about five months,
until someone sued) from the marriage
licenses in the state I live in.
Legalizing same-sex
marriage will legislate the acceptance
of the gay lifestyle in the sex
education classes of
schoolchildren.
This will discriminate
against those who can’t afford to send
their children
to religious or private schools. I mean
no disrespect to the GLBT community, but
I must
speak the truth. And, I have the right
to speak out about that which degrades
the culture in
which I live.
The gay
community has no right to redefine marriage, which should be
between one
man and one woman who, love each other,
share the same religion and/or values,
and
aren’t blood relatives. When this,
minimum-level-of-common-sense definition
of marriage
is broken, any two (or
more) humans can marry, including
blood relatives. I can hear it
now... “My sister can’t have kids and
we’re two consenting adults, why can’t
we marry?”
Gay marriage isn’t like interracial
marriage, it’s like consanguineous
marriage; like a sterile
man marrying his consenting, adult
sister. Or a woman marrying her brother
because she’s
had a hysterectomy. Or a man marrying
his mother because she’s too old to bear
children.
What about
the inevitability of two people pretending to be gay to pay lower taxes or
cheaper healthcare? How could they be
denied “marriage” if the
one-man-one-woman,
common-sense definition, is changed?
Marriage is
about the appropriate joining
of a man and a woman, not two people
merely playing the roles
of husband and wife. You disagree? Fine.
Time will prove my
point. I know what I know through
experience and scripture.
I’ve also
noticed the attempt of the GLBT community to steal the nobility of the
civil-
rights movement of the
African-American/Black community. And I
wish to point out that
it’s only those who cannot discern
the
difference between race and sexual
behavior
who are deceived by this tactic.
The
homofascists in American society don’t want it to be known that,
disassociating
with someone because of their
behavior and oppressing
someone because of the color of
their skin are two, vastly different
things. Vastly different.
The
definition of a bigot used to be a person who thought that he/she was
superior to a
person of color. This definition has
been changed in an attempt to silence
those who
acknowledge the truth about sexual
behavior. When a gay person calls a
straight person a
“bigot,” they are stealing the nobility
of the African-American civil-rights
movement.
When were homosexuals taken from their
homeland and sold into slavery? When
were
homosexuals forbidden to learn how to
read or forbidden to vote? When were
members of
the GLBT community denied the right to
own property or relegated to the back of
the bus?
When were gays systematically and
legally denied service in hotels and
restaurants. When
where there water fountains with signs
reading “Straight people only?” Isn’t
equating race
with behavior the epitome of
racism?
How can I
support people that define themselves by their sexual activities when
such activities should remain private?
How can I interface with a mind that sees
homosexuality and heterosexuality as
the same when billions of human beings, including
“gay” people, walk the Earth as a
result of heterosexuality and not one human being has
been born as the result of a same-sex
union? How can I get along with someone who
rejects their own genitals? How can I
remain silent when men who have sex with other
men insult me?
How can
anyone’s fight against “hatred” be noble when the hatred is intentionally
provoked? Isn’t a homosexual calling me
a homophobe the same thing as a man calling a
woman a lesbian because she won’t date
him? Don’t I have the right to walk away from
those who insult and defame me? Don’t I
have the same right to defend myself against
defamation as does the “gay” community?
How can I
support the mentality/lifestyle that launched NAMBLA and “bug chasing”
homosexuals that seek out AIDS?
(Rolling Stone magazine issue 915, Feb. 6, 2003.)
How am I guilty of prejudging
homosexuals when I hear about homosexuality up to
twelve times (I counted once) a day?
And, until I’m actually throwing stones at a gay
person, I’m not in violation of the “Do
not judge...”commandment of my Lord.
Just as I
wouldn’t associate with a man who was having safe, consensual sex with his
parent or adult sibling or adult child,
I won’t associate with a man who has
consensual sex
with other men. And the same people who
wouldn’t want to hear about the sexual
activities of their married, biological
parents, are the same people that
vilify me for not
wanting to hear about two men sodomizing
each other!
Although
heteroseparatism
is about walking away from all or some members of the
GLBT
community, it isn’t
about hating or persecuting anyone. There’s anti-gay and
there’s
pro-hetero. There’s standing
against and there’s standing
apart. There’s the red
pill of heteroseparatism verses the blue
pill of homofascism.
I’m
not out to create laws to segregate gay people to the back of the bus, I’m out
to
prevent laws that prohibit me from
getting off of the bus when two men
start French kissing
right in front of me. I’m not a
heterosegregationist, I’m a
heteroseparatist. I am separating
from the GLBT community and
the homophobes of this world. And my
stand isn’t against
gay people, my nonviolent stand is
against gay propaganda.
A heteroseparatist would never stand
near the funeral or memorial of a gay
person with
a “God hates fags” sign. And vandalism,
proactive violence, and economic
oppression (like
firing or not hiring a gay person), are
not a part of heteroseparatism. Even
when a
heteroseparatist is attacked by a
homosexual, a homofascist, or a
homoappeaser, (unless
the attack is physical) the
aforementioned code-of-conduct still
stands.
I walk this
Earth in a man’s body
and I can say, with great compassion and
great
certainty, that; if you are male
and over the
age of puberty, and you are not solely
attracted to the female of our species,
you are
perverse and self-deceived.
And because
of the insults, slander, and mischacterizations that I’ve received from
homofascists, (people who persecute
people who won’t accept the concept that the GLBT
lifestyle
is normal) homoappeasers, (people who
fear the scorn of the GLBT community)
and homosexuals, I will no longer
associate with people who belong to
these ideological
divisions. I’m done with homofascists,
homoappeasers, homosexuals, and
homophobes.
That’s it. No hatred. No fear. No
ignorance. No assimilation. No
surrender.
And that’s it. Version 1.1 (04 May
2009) of my internet manifesto.
(The paperback, The
Heteroseparatist’s Manifesto,
is currently under construction.) My
name is Carl Rowan Morris. In
cyberspace I am called “Mantronikk.” I
am the creator of the word, the author
of this manifesto, the designer of the
logo, and the World’s first
heteroseparatist.
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